Three Questions to Ask Yourself to Manifest More Easily

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Are you struggling to manifest a successful business?

If so, you are definitely not alone.

It doesn’t have to be so hard. You can make it easier by asking yourself these three questions.

Question #1: Do you know what you desire?

All desires are wants, but not all wants are desires. A desire is a want that is driven by something inside of you (inside your heart). Anything that is not a true desire is a wish.

To answer this question, take out your list of what you want to manifest. If you don’t have one, make one. Once you have your list, go through each item one at a time and ask yourself if it’s a wish or a desire. For each item, ask yourself how much you really want it on a scale of 1.10. If it’s less than 7, it’s a wish.

My list used to include, “Pay off mortgage by October.” But that was a wish, not a true desire. On the scale of 1..10, I was a 1. It was just a wish and not a very strong one at that.

For the things that aren’t true desires, dig a little to find your inner motivation. Ask yourself why you want it. And why it’s important to you. Keep digging until you have your answer. When you find it, write it on your list. You may also discover you don’t want it, in which just cross it out or even replace it with something you do desire.

In my case, I crossed off paying off my mortgage by October and added “pay the mortgage on time.” This might sound weird, but I felt relieved as soon as I did it. I didn’t need the extra pressure.

Getting in touch with what you desire is more than just getting specific about what you want. It’s about reaching inside of yourself to get in touch with what motivates you to manifest. When you do that, taking action to manifest will get exponentially easier.

Question #2: Have you really decided to go after what you want?

If you aren’t 100 percent committed to manifesting what you desire, then you are going to struggle. The universe will keep you on the fence until you decide to get off.

How committed are you to growing your business?

What are you ready to commit 100 percent of your efforts to in order to manifest it? This doesn’t have to be all-encompassing or include your entire business. In fact, some of the easiest things to manifest are simple. So maybe right now you want to figure out who you want to work with and why.

When I started my business, I tried to commit to the whole thing. But honestly, all I wanted (my desire) was to start seeing clients. I was completely stuck until I started to focus on what I desired, rather than the big picture. That’s because the big picture was too scary for me to consider.

Commit to what you truly desire and your business will progress. Finishing this first step will lead to the next. Your desires will change along the way.

Question #3: Do you believe what you want is possible?

If you don’t believe what you want is possible, then you are setting up yourself for failure. You might as well not attempt to manifest at all.

I’m not saying to stop manifesting. I’m suggesting you work on believing and removing the doubt.

It might not be completely possible for you to believe, but you can fake it. Start by getting in touch with the feeling. If you can feel something, you can believe it. The more you feel something, the more you vibrate at the frequency of what you want. Then you become a magnet for it.

Try one of these methods to get in touch with the feelings.

Visualize: Close your eyes and see it in your mind’s eye. Feel what it’s like during and after. If you can’t visualize, what if you could? Can’t feel, what if you could? It’s a game.

Play the As-If Game: Live your life as if what you want is already yours. If you want to manifest abundance, start shopping in stores you think are only for the rich. If you want to be fully booked, start setting time aside for regular activities in your business, accounting, follow-ups, marketing. If you want to go on holiday, book time off in your calendar and start browsing the internet for vacation ideas.

If you struggle to believe, engage a coach to help you remove your blocks. It’s worth it. (That happens to be my speciality. Details here.)

If you’re struggling to manifest, make sure you tap into your desire and then commit to the process. Before you start, make sure you work on believing.

 

 

How to Stop Absorbing Other People’s Emotions and Energy

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Are you easily overwhelmed or anxious in public? Or are you a sponge for other people’s emotions?

Both can cause you to feel too much and shut down energetically. When you do, you lower your vibration and then you stop manifesting.

But it’s easy to protect yourself. Check out this video for 3 tips on how to do just that.These are simple techniques and do not require you to imagine a bubble of light around you. (I’m not a fan.)

 


 

 

I want to hear from you.

What did you think of the tips?

What’s your best trick for releasing emotion that don’t belong to you?

 

 

 

 

How to keep your vibration up when the shit hits the fan?

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What do you do when stuff doesn’t go according to plan?

Do you stress out and lose your shit? Curl into a fetal position and crawl under a table? Or do you stay calm and carry on?
When the shits hits the fan, your reaction determines how long it takes you to deal with it. Managing your reactions with ease and grace keeps you in a high vibration, which allows you to continue manifesting what you want.

When things go wrong, the #1 risk is you falling into the trap of focusing on problems, rather than solutions.

When that happens, you send out a message to the universe that you want more problems. Of course, the universe being the universe, it gives you more of what you asked for. In other words, it keeps you stuck.

It’s so easy to stay stuck. (It happens to everyone including me). That’s why I’m bringing you three tips to help you get out of the trap.

With practice, you’ll be able to avoid the trap all together.

Tip #1: Start Laughing

When something goes wrong, the best way to deal with it is to start laughing.

Laughter dissolves the energy and keeps your vibration high. And it keeps you focusing on solutions.

It doesn’t matter what you laugh at, just laugh. It can be a funny cat video on YouTube. (Personally, I love watching cats falling into bath tubs.)

Find a way to laugh at yourself. I’m a huge drama queen. I used to get stuck in despair all the time when things didn’t go according to plan. When I catch myself in this trap now, I roll my eyes and say, “I’m doing it again. That’s just so funny. Stop it.” It always puts a smile on my lips and I start laughing.

Laughter is the easiest way out of problems.

Try it.

Tip #2 Ask what-if?

The easiest way to get out of a low vibration and into a high one is to ask a what-if question.

When things aren’t going according to plan, ask yourself:

What if all of this was resolved? Wouldn’t it feel amazing?

My favorite question is, “What if I was an expert at sales? Wouldn’t it feel amazing?” Just saying it makes me feel better and gets me out of my negative mindset.

The what-if question works because it changes your perspective right away. This is the space you want to be in in order to solve problems.

Try it.

Tip #3 Stay calm and carry on

Whenever things aren’t going well, do not panic.

If you panic, you are telling the universe to keep sending you more reasons to panic.

Stay calm and carry on.

If you feel the panic rise, take a few deep breaths. Find laughter. Ask the what-if question.

Then take it one step at a time and remember you will figure this out and you will get through it.

Trust in yourself. You’ve got this.

You cannot always control how things unfold, but you can choose how you respond and therefore get through them.

When problems come up, find laughter. Ask a what-if question and raise your vibration. Finally, stay calm and carry on.

Now I want to hear from you.

What’s your #1 tip for getting through things when they don’t go according to plan?

Let me know in the comments.

 

Are you bitter about your business?

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Perhaps, the time, the effort and money you’ve invested have left you feeling resentful? Or maybe you’re frustrated that things are taking longer than you planned? Or you regret even starting your business in the first place?

That’s normal.

Most entrepreneurs (myself included) have been there at some point in time.

The question is what are you going to do about it? You have two choices: deal with it or don’t.

If you choose not to deal with it, the bitterness will fester and grow inside of you like poison. And that will send out a message to the Universe which attracts more bitterness and resentment. That means more struggles. That’s the Law of Attraction.

If you’ve been struggling for a while, there’s a good chance this bitterness and resentment is already playing havoc with your ability to manifest. Not dealing with it will actually keep you from making the impact on the world you came here to make.

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