The critical step to powerful manifesting

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Today’s topic is all about the critical step that you must take to use powerful manifesting in your business. We’re all entrepreneurs, we all want to manifest loads of clients, we want to help the world and we want to manifest a business that’s in alignment with us and that includes our clients. So what is the most critical that we have to do and how do we really manifest it? I’m not going to go through all of that tonight, what we’re really gonna focus on is that one critical step. Once you know what that is, I’m going to give you some tips and tricks on how implement that in your daily life and in your business so that you can start to up your game when it comes to manifesting. If you don’t know me, my name is Nathalie Guerin and I am a manifesting business coach. I help female entrepreneurs manifest better clients in their business and yes that usually ends up meaning more money. My whole thing is that it’s about being in alignment. If you can get yourself in alignment, raise your vibration and take consistent action then your business is going to be sky rocket. I absolutely love doing that, it’s really a privilege and an honor to be able to do that. Alright so that’s what I do, if you have questions or comments feel free to put them into the message box and I will be able to answer them.

Let’s talk about manifesting.

We all know that first step to manifesting is that you have to know what you want and why you want it. It might be two steps but it’s really one, and everybody says it’s the most important step when it comes to manifesting, because if you don’t really know what you want then you don’t really have a target and you can’t start to create it into your life and the universe can’t really bring it to you because you just don’t know. So you have to know what you want. So if you’re listening to this right now, what do you want? Get specific. How many clients do you want? What do you want, and more than that why is it important to you in your dream? I’m not just saying what are you going to do with the money you get, I’m saying why is it important for you to do this work? How does it tie into the bigger picture? That’s really the first step in manifesting. You have to be able to answer those two questions because of you don’t nothing else will matter. But I don’t think it’s the most critical step when it comes to manifesting.

The most critical step is feeling.

You have to be able to feel what it is that you want in your business. By feeling, I mean closing your eyes and imagining something happening to you in your business, whether it’s getting clients, converting clarity calls, talking in public. Whatever it is that you’re trying to build in your business, you have to be able to feel it inside your heart. When you can feel it, you know that it’s already happened. When it’s already happened it’s just a matter of catching up to it and taking a few actions to actually make it happen.

If you can’t feel it then that will create doubt in your space. There are three things you really should know about feeling. [If you can’t imagine it, then it can’t come true] So here’s an example, so if you can’t close your eyes and really feel what it is that you want in your business, then your unconscious is saying that it’s not really possible. When that happens, when something isn’t really possible, then your unconscious and the universe are saying hey that’s not possible so they are going to do everything they can to make sure that that’s not possible. Take for example the feeling of, it could be anything in your business, so I’m gonna give you an example that is non business related and for me it’s about dating.

I want to go out and start dating and the reality is when we’re able to feel what actually happens is, we’re able to imagine it happening. But if you can’t feel it then you can’t move yourself forward. So when I talk about dating or I imagine dating I can’t actually imagine going out on a date, much less imagine myself going up onto a website and signing up. So it’s actually in my mind, it’s impossible to do that. Until I can start to feel it, until I can start to really start to imagine it and feel it in my body, dating is not gonna happen. It’s the same thing with your clients.

If you can’t imagine yourself selling your packages, if you can’t imagine yourself. If you can’t imagine yourself seeing everything that’s coming towards you, you can’t feel it, then it’s not reality and your unconscious is gonna say it’s not happening and everything that you do is gonna prove that to you.   So that’s why it’s really important to be able to feel it.

[If your feeling “bad” when you imagine, it’s going to be extra hard to manifest]

If you can feel it and you know you can kinda imagine it but your feeling kinda like, it’s gonna happen, it’s not, you have a lot of doubt, you have a lot of fear then that’s also a bit of an issue because I want you to be able to feel good about something, the whole thing. If you’re imagining getting clients and it’s making you feel scared or guilty or tired, you’re not gonna manifest clients, there’s a good chance, or as many as you like, or the clients you want because you’re gonna be like Noooooo I don’t want to feel that way.

There’s no better reason in the world not to manifest clients than when you’re feeling stressed about the idea of getting clients. So in my own business, November, December last year, my business crashed, all of my 90 day clients.

I basically had nothing and it was weird because for months I was doing really, really, really well in my business. I was, everything was happening and it was like all of a sudden I crashed. It took me two months to realize that the reason I crashed was because the idea of visualizing and feeling it, what I was feeling was the idea that if I was to work with clients I would get even more tired and I really, really just didn’t want that.

So I stopped and it wasn’t conscious, it was unconscious, but my unconscious said you don’t want to be tired so we’re gonna do everything in our power to make sure that that doesn’t happen. I manifested clarity calls, but they were always people who weren’t quite in alignment with what I wanted, and what I offered, they were people who didn’t have money, it was all of the fears that I had had for months started to come to the surface.

You want to be able to clear those blocks so that you can really feel good about the imagery that you want in your business. So if you’re wanting to feel something then it has to feel good and you have to be able to go, alright receive clients, have clarity calls, work through the clients and do that whole perspective so that you can get to the end of it and go ahhh this feels really good.

If it feels really good from A-Z then there’s probably no blocks, but if you can feel it and start to send that feeling out into the universe, your vibration gets sent out and the Law of Attraction starts to return it to you. I absolutely love that because it’s been something that I’ve been doing recently and it’s almost like my clients are being called to me, just because I’m sending out this vibration. Every time that I send it out, I see it coming back to me and I start to feel it even more, there’s a sense of, it’s happening and instead of feeling my clients come towards me, I feel my clients with me. It’s really awesome and I know that I’ve been manifesting more clients because of it ever since I’ve been able to really feel it. I manifested a 90-day client this week, last week it was a 6-week client, so just by feeling it and practicing it every day things are coming into alignment. I actually think that feeling is the most important step in manifesting because if you can’t feel it, and we all bypass this step because we think, what do you want, why do you want it, take action, ask the universe but we all skip over the step of feeling.

But when you can feel, and you can really truly feel what it is that you want in your business, you really get certain clarity within you that this is happening and that there is no doubt, and it removes the doubt, which is why it’s so important to actually do in your business.

Alright so how do you feel? How do you start to feel something that you’ve never felt before?

Unless you’ve had like $5,000 clients before or like full clientele, of if you’re new at converting or if you’re struggling through that how do you start to feel what it is you want without actually having it done before? And that is a really key question that a lot of my clients ask and it’s really about practicing.

First, there’s a few ways that I like to do this and one is visualization.

Some people will say, ugh visualization, I have visualization. I haven’t really talked about it because for me it’s not really about visualization, for me it’s about feeling it and so a great way to do this is to imagine yourself having all the clients that you want and really feeling what you want to feel when you’re with your clients and what will your clients feel like and you bring that into your imagination and you allow it to be and you just feel it and that’s enough.

A minute to two minutes every day of that will send out a very clear vibration that you’re ready for clients and it will tell your unconscious that “hey I have clients” because your mind doesn’t know the difference between what’s real and what’s not. So when you feel something, everything lines up and says “Hey, I’m great” right? Secondly, I particularly like this because not everyone is into visualization, so I particularly like this one.  So it’s to surround yourself with an environment that makes it real for you and that says “Hey this is really happening” so you kinda fake it until you make it. Jack Canfield when he wrote Chicken Soup for the Soul, which spent 18 months on the NY Times Best Seller list, basically what he had done before that was he had put signs up in his house with the fact that he was the best seller and when it came to be he was on there for 18 months. He surrounded himself with proof before it even happened, that it was real.

It’s really about allowing yourself to go there and allowing the information to come into your space. A great way to think money, because I know abundance blocks come up when we’re manifesting in our businesses, is to fake being rich!

Recently I actually decided to put everything into QuickBooks, the difference between before and after id phenomenal. Do I have a whole lot more money? No but I feel in control of it and I feel in manage of it and I feel like that’s what rich people do. In my mind I’m becoming rich just because of it and I can really feel it.

If you don’t want to go that far you can put hundred dollar bills in your wallet and just start to feel what that would be like. Just by doing little physical things like that, you’re actually bringing the feelings into your day to day, so you don’t always have to stop and go “OK I have to feel”, right? That’s pretty cool to, you can set an alarm on your clock or you can just have little signs everywhere that remind you that you need to feel in that moment.

The third way is to use mantras. I use them on a daily basis and I have like 10-15 of them that I use in my business and I repeat them and I change them every once in awhile and sometimes I’ll add one or modify one. One of them that I have right now is “All of my invoices are paid quickly and easily and on time” and it’s really amazing to me because as soon as I send out an invoice it gets paid like that. It’s only been since I started this mantra- Ahh I love that one to Melissa, do you have a favorite mantra Melissa?

Go ahead and put it in the comments. Awesome. The other piece that I do in my business is I write an evidence log. Every day I come up and I say “how is the universe supporting me?” and I write it out and this is something I’ve been doing on and off for the last few months, actually since July of last year, and I started doing it really regularly in February, once a day, and one it makes me feel really good and I start to see the proof and the evidence and my mind starts to focus on what it is that I want.

The more I can focus on it the more I can feel it because the closer I get to it. So these are all ways to start feeling what we do in our business and what we really want. So if you can feel it you can manifest it. So this was our Blab for tonight. Alright so you’ve just learned the key step to manifesting, which is feeling. If you’re going to do anything with manifesting, start to feel what it is that you want.

Visualize, feel it, act as if, and allow it to come into your life because that will take you to the next step. I would love to know what you think in the comments below. Are you able to feel your clients? Does it feel good? Will you practice? Love & light!

How to make sure your vibe says “I want clients?”


I’m really excited about this topic and I can’t wait to share it with you. This week what we’re talking about is our vibration. Does your vibe that you’re sending out into the universe say “I want clients” or “stay away from me”?

This is what we’re talking about today and the way we’re gonna do it is this. We’re gonna talk about what vibration is because I realize not everybody is on the same page necessarily. Then we’re going to talk about the 4 signs that maybe you’re not quite sending out the right vibe.

Then we’ll talk about how you fix it. I’ll also share an exercise with you….   How you make sure that your vibe says “I actually want clients” not only consciously but unconsciously. How do you actually integrate that into your body?   I’m really excited for you. I love this particular exercise that I’m going to give you at the end.

How does that sound for everyone?  If you have questions or comments you can let me know in the comment box, for questions put /Q and it will show up for me and I will be able to answer that and at the end we’re going to have a Q & A and live coaching and so I’m here for that.

If you just joined us, I’m Nathalie Guerin, I’m a manifesting business coach and I can’t wait to do this Blab. What is vibration? 

I was thinking about this earlier and how to explain it.   Have you ever walked into a room where two people had been fighting and you can just feel that you walked in on something, even though you hadn’t been in the room before, but you just know that these two people were having a fight? Does that sound familiar to you? If it does then give me some hands, I would love that. That is the vibration that they were sending out.

You don’t need to know or be aware of what actually happened in the room, you’re just going to know, you’re going to feel it. That’s because you’re feeling the vibration of someone else and what they sent out into the universe, and you have receptors and you’re feeling it. Now the Universe is much bigger and the energy of creation is complete vibration. We’re continuously sending out signals into the universe and they are completely coming back to us.

What happens with our vibration is that they get reflected back to us. Now I know that they Law of Attraction says that we’re attracting what we send out but what we’re really attracting is our vibration. For me the way I see the Law of Attraction is, I see it like a mirror. So when you send out a vibration into the universe, the Law of Attraction says “OK, I hear you” and it reflects that back to you, and in the process sends you similar vibrations.

So when we’re talking about wanting clients, what happens is if you have a vibration of being unsure or you don’t know, what happens is the vibration you send out to the universe says “well, I’m not sure I want clients” and so the clients aren’t necessarily going to come as easily as they should. That is the challenge behind vibration.

Your job is to make sure that you feel good and that the things that you want, really get sent out there, and that the universe is super clear about what you want so that it can reflect that back to you. If you’re feeling shitty all the time and you’re feeling depressed, it’s actually really hard to manifest abundance and clients because those are in a vibration of NOT having. It’s not just that you have one vibration all the time, you’re gonna be all over the place. Sometimes it’s gonna be good, sometimes it’s gonna be not so good and for some things it’s going to be good and for some things it’s not gonna be quite so good.  

HOT TIP: If you’re gonna manifest clients you need to make sure that your vibration is clean with respect to clients.  

What that means is, you want to make sure that you are excited about having clients, that you’re excited about attracting clients to you, about getting paid by them and that you absolutely love it, because that will get you to that vibration of “Yay, I want clients!”  

What are 4 signs that you’re not in that vibration? The very first one, and I absolutely love this one, is you don’t have clients.   Does that happen to you? Or you’re not getting as many clients as you like and that could very well be that you’re in the wrong vibration.

Most of the time, it’s mostly because you really haven’t committed to getting more clients, or the story you tell yourself is keeping you away from actually wanting clients and I’m going to get into that in just a second.

So that was really the first scenario, so if you’re not attracting as many clients as you want, you’re probably in the wrong vibration.   The second sign or scenario is; you’re actually afraid people will see you.

What I mean by that is, when I first started my business I was really afraid that people would know that I was a psychic, that I was an intuitive, that I was a spiritual healer and a coach because I had this whole other life in IT and the two didn’t really match. So I only put myself out there a little bit because I was so afraid that anybody would know what I do, because I thought that would have repercussions on to my life.

I was sending out a vibration of “I don’t want clients because I don’t want you to see me, I’m afraid for people to see me.”   I was trying to be really compartmentalized, and if you’re trying to make yourself visible and out there, you cannot compartmentalize. You have to decide that you’re gonna own it and you’re gonna put yourself out there.

By the way, for me, the way I did that was, I created a blog post and I told everybody that I was psychic, I told everybody what I was afraid for them to know and I sent it to everyone, friends, colleagues, and family. I just told them, because it got rid of the fear and my vibration changed to “I want clients,” because now it was actually ok to have clients.   Sign number three that you’re in the wrong vibration is you’re unconsciously afraid that you’re actually going to get clients.

Now, this kinda sounds funny a little bit but just hear me out for a second.   So let’s say that you imagine yourself on stage and you’re comfortable with the amount of people surrounding you, right?

Then you imagine yourself having them come up to you, they’re gonna pay you and you’re gonna have to pitch to them, well not really pitch but you’re gonna have to offer your services, you might actually end up with a client or two and all of that has fears attached to it.

You might be afraid of asking for money.

You might be afraid of getting paid for your services.

You might be afraid that you’re going to lose your work life balance if you start getting clients in the numbers that you want.   All of those are unconscious or underlying reasons that support your vibration that says “please don’t bring me clients, like I just can’t deal with it.”

 So what you want to do is just be aware of that, and we’re gonna go ahead and clear that.   That’s really the crux of it all, when you have something that you’re trying to manifest and it’s just not coming, clients, clarity calls, money in your business, whatever that might be.

What actually happens is, it’s what’s underneath that the problem. You’ve gotta dig a little bit to find out what’s really there for you.   Just remember that whatever fear, whatever vibration you’re sending out, it’s supporting you in some way.

Find that gentleness, you don’t have to beat yourself up, you just have to be aware of it so you can choose something different. That’s really how it works.

Another sign that you’re kind of afraid of being visible and you’re not sending that vibration of “I want clients” and you’re saying please don’t look at me, is maybe on social media.

I know that a lot of people are on Facebook, but you’re either not showing up consistently. You’re not letting people know how great your services are, you’re not talking about who you are, you’re not being of service, and you’re kind of scrolling Facebook feeds but you’re not actually doing anything. Or maybe if you do it, you just do it a little bit at a time, and you do it once on Monday and then maybe three weeks from now you do another ad.

I’m exaggerating but the reality is if you want to be visible, your action has to match that, otherwise your vibration is gonna say “you’re not serious, you don’t really want clients.” And the Universe is going to return that back to you. So you need to clean up your vibration and the very first thing you need to clean up your vibration is deciding that you consciously want clients. No matter what fear there is, you know what, decide that you are an entrepreneur with clients, and that clients pay you well.  

It’s like the best thing you can do for yourself is to get super clear. Whenever I get like a lull in my manifesting for clients, what’s really happening is that my decision and my clarity has gone, or I’m not really sure that I want clients. It happens especially when I’m particularly tired, and it does happen, especially at the end of the year.

Last November, I went from a hundred to like nothing because I was super tired. Honestly, my vibration, even though I kept saying I wanted clients, I really just didn’t friken want clients, it was just too much. So admit that to yourself, be honest with yourself because when you are then you can let it go and you can get past it and you can really get to that next place.   How do you make sure that your vibration is clean?

You’re gonna use your imagination and the power of it. The little exercise that I wanna do tonight is based on the third principal that we talked about which is ‘what do you imagine? Can you envision yourself going through the process[of getting clients]?’

  • So I’m going to ask you and invite you to close your eyes, and just take in a few breaths. Breathe in through your nose and down to your belly and exhale, and just connect with your breathe.
  • If you want to receive unconditional love, then just go ahead and say yes and creator of all that is, is commanded to send unconditional love to all of those who are listening right now and actually want to receive love and help. [if you want this now, please comment below and I will reply saying that I have sent it.]
  • I want you to imagine yourself, walking up to your tribe, on a stage, maybe the stage is dark, maybe it’s all full of light, maybe there’s an audience, but whatever you do, you walk onto stage and you notice what it feels like to walk up on to stage.
  • Are you being dragged? Are you wanting to be there? Where is the comfort and the discomfort?
  • Just notice, knowing that it is perfectly right. And as you get to the stage, you notice if there are people in the audience, you feel people in the audience.
  • Does it feel good to be seen by the people in the audience? What does it actually look like to you? What does it feel like? Are you like ‘Yeah, give me visibility, I’m being seen’ or are you trying to be hidden? Are you terrified?
  • Now, if the lights weren’t already on, they come on, and the stadium fills with your tribe and you become super visible and just take a moment and see what that feels like, notice, does it feel good, does it feel stressful, do you want to run away? Where is that and how does it feel?
  • Now imagine yourself talking to this beautiful group of people, and letting them know how you can help them. How does that feel to you? Do you feel nervous? Do you want to hide? Can you do it? Whatever that maybe, just allow yourself. It might feel exciting, and notice if you have any nervousness in talking to them.
  • As you do, clients come to you and say “I want to hire you.” And you say aha, and notice what comes up for you, are you nervous? Are you excited? Or Both? Notice the heart emotions, notice the challenges that you’re facing, and as you decide “yes, I want to work with you,” and you get to know them a little bit, you say “Hey, my services cost ABC,” how does that feel to you? Are you feeling small, are you feeling confident? Are you feeling like you can never do this and nobody’s ever going to pay?
  • Whatever the fear is, just notice. Notice the uncomfortableness of it all. Notice what it feels like to be paid by your clients. Yes, it’s gonna be sooo exciting, and it’s gonna be nice, but maybe it’s also going to be like ‘oh my gosh, now I’m responsible’. What is happening to you in that moment? In that process?
  • Then imagine yourself working with your client as you go through the process. What does that feel like? Does it feel good? Does it feel stressed? If it’s a three-month program, go down to the end of the program and imagine yourself saying, “hey we worked together really well. I’m really glad” How does it feel for you?
  • Alright so I wanna know how that felt for you guys, what you noticed. Most of you probably felt really good as we went through this visualization and you started to really feel it.
  • Where did the uncomfortable come from?

  A lot of people get really uncomfortable about getting paid. A lot of people get uncomfortable when they can imagine 6, or 7 or 8 clients coming to them. If you can find the feelings that make you uncomfortable and the situations that make you uncomfortable, that is what you need to clear with your vibration. So what you wanna do is, you wanna send that out into the Universe, and you wanna come back and you want to identify those feelings. And when you have them and those uncomfortable feelings, you’re gonna tap them out.

And EFT tapping is fairly simple so let’s say that you’re afraid that they’re all going to trample you to death when you get out on stage, and that happens, it’s a really common fear. You’re gonna say “even though I feel anxious that they’re all gonna trample me to death, I love myself fully and completely.”

And you’re gonna tap that. When I say tapping, it’s EFT, you can google it, but primarily it’s from the top of the head, the forehead, below the eyes, under the nose, on the chin, on the thalamus gland, underneath the arms, both your wrists and you also want to do the sides of your hands.

So that is how you’re going to clear the fears around that. The more you can visualize the easier it is to manifest. If you can’t visualize and you can’t feel it then it’s going to be next to impossible to manifest because your unconscious is blocking you, so whatever you want in your life you can use this tip for.

So now that you’ve had a chance to listen to the BLAB.

  • What do you think your vibe is saying? Tell me in the comments?
  • Where do you feel uncomfortable about getting clients?
  • Did you try tapping out the discomfort?

Don’t forget. You are always welcome to join me on BLAB live. It happens every Wednesday. Click here to subscribe.  

For the love of God, stop trying to manifest 10K months!

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How do you manifest 10K Months? Want to know?

I bet you do (of course you do). Who wouldn’t? I’ll tell you a secret – that question drives me bonkers.It has the ability to send me on an emotional roller coaster.

Nope, it’s not a so enjoyable ride. On top of that, this goal is killing our ability to manifest in our businesses. Since I’m here to help you manifest money in your biz, we are talking about it in this week’s blog. You don’t want to miss. Not up for the video?

Catch the transcription below. Love & Light! Click play to watch the video.

Ahhh, it feels good to say that! I’ve been wanting to say that message for so long. It seems like the 10k is absolutely everywhere. Everybody talks about 5 figures, whether it’s in Facebook ads or in your business. Everybody talks about it and it’s this continuous challenge that we have to do, we have to strive for that 5 figure month, and more specifically that 10k month. I also see it in the work that I do with my clients. I see it with the boosters and the vibration tune-ups that I’ve done. Almost 90% of the people who submit requests for boosters or tune-ups want to manifest that 10k month.

I used to want to manifest that 10k month too.

I used to start off the month doing the math, I didn’t want to say how much money I wanted to make but I did do the math.  I used to say, you know I wanted 3 clients at this much and 1 client at this much and yeah if you did the math it would all add up to 10k. The problem with that was I always got to the end of the month and nothing was ever happening. I got really discouraged and I stopped manifesting, and I know that I’m not the only one with that? Who here struggles with manifesting 10k months consistently? If you want to say so great. Everybody is raising their hand saying yeah, yeah I’m having 10k months.   Why is this topic so funny Coach Karen? You can always call in and tell us, yeah it is kind of funny, and it’s kind of humorous. So if anybody has any questions, or comments, go ahead and put the comments in the chat box, if you can start with /Q if you want to ask a question. Yes, It’s absolutely everywhere Karen and that’s exactly why I’m talking about it.

I got myself sucked into that premise that I should be at 10k months.

There’s a few problems when you try to manifest exactly $10, 000 a month and it’s really kind of funny, so I’m going to go through that so you’re at least aware. Then I’m gonna tell you what you can do instead.

So the first problem with this 10k a month thing is that for most coaches, it’s just too big, right?

It’s just too big. For most of us, especially starting out, if you’ve had a few good months, $10,000 just seems so far out of our reach that our brain starts to go, “it’s impossible, it’s impossible. It’s impossible” and when that happens we actually start to manifest that into our reality and so then it does not happen.

The number’s just too big. It’s like if you say, I wanna have 10 clients today, but you’ve never actually had 1 client. So from 0-10 is just too much. So your brain needs to know that you can manifest and the only way you can do that is by picking a smaller number. I’m not telling you not to manifest 10k months yet. You’re gonna learn what to do instead.

Alright, so what’s the other issue with this 10k a month? The problem is the social consciousness.

How many entrepreneurs think 10k months are difficult to get? It’s that thing that we should all strive for, but how many of us actually think it’s easy? Possible? doable? Or is it just for those lucky few that have figured it out? We always say that only 5% of coaching population in the entrepreneurial world ever gets to 6 figures. Now, I don’t know if that’s true but I do know that that plays on my mindset and that plays on everyone’s mindset here like “getting to 10k months is really challenging, it’s really difficult. If we see it that way we might be creating more difficulties in manifesting clients just because we think it should be hard, because it’s a social consciousness. It’s actually not your belief. When you start to release that, you start to say “hey, ok, I can maybe do this.” Are there any questions about that? Did I make sense when I talked about social consciousness?

Ok, so what is the third problem with manifesting 10k months?

The problem is we never go beyond 10k and what I mean by that is, for a long time 10k was my only figure. I couldn’t feel it and I didn’t really know what that meant, and as soon as I started to think outside of the box and went further than that and what I really wanted was like 15 or 20k I never even allowed myself to go there. So you kind of stop yourself short of manifesting because you’re building this house and you’re like, I have to get to this house before I can go further.  

The truth of the matter is you can actually go further faster if you don’t have to build your house first. If you’re gonna build a castle, you’re not gonna build a house just because you wanna get the training that you need in order to build a castle, it just wouldn’t make sense. So why do we do that in our business and why did we set this target at $10,000 a month?

Now, I’m gonna add one more problem, it’s not on my list.

The problem with the 10k months is if you’ve been trying to do it over and over again for the last 4, 5, 6, 7, 18 months.

Sometimes you make it and sometimes you don’t, the struggle and the frustration with that number becomes horrendous and your vibration goes down to a place of frustration and that number doesn’t bring you joy, then that means you’re gonna have a really hard time manifesting it. So you need to change that around, you need to kinda go “OK, I’m gonna try this differently for a little while, because that number, I’m just tired of trying to get it.” Now, when we try to manifest 10k months by the way and that word trying was very deliberate, nothing fucking happens!

So when you’re trying to manifest 10k months it’s really important to just stop and say “I AM manifesting 10k months, I Am the coach, the entrepreneur who manifests 15,000 or 20,000 a month”.   Start talking in the present, because if you try, nothing is going to happen. You’re just going to keep trying, and trying, and trying. And by the way, I’m talking to you, but I’m talking to myself just as much right now. Stop trying Nathalie, just do it! I am the woman that manifests 10k months. If you close your eye right now and imagine being that woman that is manifesting $20,000 a month, $30,000 a month, what does it feel like? What would the entrepreneur feel like in you? Just allow that feeling to come in through you, and if it is 10,000 a month and that’s 4 clients a month, what does that feel like? Imagine yourself, and know that that is who you are right now.

So what are you gonna do if you’re not gonna manifest 10k months?

What are you gonna do instead of manifesting 10k months? I want you to have 3 goals: The first goal is gonna be a very small goal, something that is very doable for your month. So for February let’s say my minimum goal is $3000. I know I can friken hit that number and I know that it’s gonna happen because I see the clients coming and I know how much I’m gonna invoice and I know how much money is going to come in.

The reason you want to have a small number is so that your brain and your subconscious can go “I can manifest”. It’s not just coming out of thin air, and you start going “yeah, this is coming, this is gonna happen, and it’s going to be possible moving forward.

Then you wanna have a middle number, which is gonna be a little bit of a stretch, and you don’t want to make that an impossible number, but what would be like a nice comfortable number? For me that would be like $9,003. I’m not gonna pick $10,000- forget $10,000. Pick something else. If you’ve never done $10,000 then pick $9999 or $11,000 or $10, 043. What feels good to you? Pick something that makes fun, because 10,000 and 10,043 are actually very close right? But they have a different energy so go with that. Then pick a number, an extension of that number and there is where I go crazy with that, like $20,000 a month. Like that would be for me an amazing goal. It doesn’t feel doable, it doesn’t feel reachable, but that’s ok, I’m still stretching into that and I’m allowing this month to be between the minimum and the maximum and for the actions to come to teach me. The next month, I can keep the same ones, I can go up, I can go down and I’m never ever going to put $10,000 again on one of those sheets because it just frustrates the hell out of me! So that is how you do your numbers if you want to put targets down in manifesting, and once you have your numbers don’t forget to ask the universe to help you.

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