How to Let Go of Your Attachment to the Outcome?

If you aren’t manifesting what you desire (whether it’s money, clients, and/or love), I’m willing to bet that you are holding on to the outcome too tightly.

If you want to manifest what you desire, you must let go of your attachment to the outcome. Otherwise you will fall into feelings of frustration & despair. When this happens, your focus is not having rather than having. You are in the wrong vibration. When you feel this way, all you get is more of what you don’t want.

Yes it sucks. And that’s how the law of attraction works.

The only way to raise your vibration is to let go. It’s the only way to start manifesting again.

Want to know how to let go?

Click play on the video. You’ll learn 3 easy steps to let go of your attachment to the outcome.


Remember … letting go is an art.   Keep practicing.


First Step to Manifesting Financial Abundance


Do you want to create financial abundance in your life?

Who doesn’t?

How motivated are you to do whatever it takes to change your current circumstances and manifest financial abundance? Are you so motivated that you are willing to face your fears and get help? Are you willing to invest in yourself? Are you willing to leave your comfort zone? What are you willing to do?

The truth is that most people aren’t motivated enough to do what it takes (that’s normal because change is scary). For most us, we have to reach rock bottom before we are willing to do what it takes to really change our circumstances.

The good news is that you don’t have to hick rock bottom to increase your motivation and turn things around. 

Click play on the video below to learn how.

Now that you’ve watched the video, my challenge to you is this:

Take 10-20 minutes and up your motivation.

Will you take the challenge? Let me know in the comments below.

A Quick Tip to Raise Your Vibration



Want to raise your vibration and increase your ability to manifest?

Use words that make you feel good and avoid words that don’t.

The better you feel, the higher your vibration. The higher your vibration, the easier it is to manifest. Words with higher vibration make you feel good. Use words like joy, wealth, and love as much as possible.

Click play to learn 3 words to stop using and raise your vibration.

What did you think of this tip? Let me know in the comments below.




3 Easy Steps to Let Go of Oerfectionism and Start Manifesting



Do you get lost in perfectionism before you even start taking action?

Being a perfectionist is a wonderful quality to have SOME OF the time. It helps you cross all the Ts and dot all the Is. Perfectionism helps you do whatever it takes to give your clients the best possible results. You rock because of the hard work this trait brings out in you.

The rest of the time, being a perfectionist isn’t so great. You don’t get very much done and your awesome clients don’t get to experience you. Ultimately, splitting hairs means you don’t make as much money as you could, leaving you frustrated. Obsessing can be a big pain in the ass (I’m talking from experience here).

Sound familiar?

Click play and learn 3 easy steps to let go of perfectionism and start manifesting.



I promise one of these steps will make you laugh.



I flushed away $6,000 on a business coach

When we started working together, I thought she had all the answers. I thought she would help me setup my business foundation.

For me, that was the first step to a six-figure business. I built Get Projects You Love to help female project managers bring their careers to the next level. I had the website, a logo, a freebie, and a product. It was a logical niche because of my experience as a project manager.

Then I hit a wall. I was ready to start promoting, yet I just couldn’t do it. I couldn’t FORCE myself to take action. The coach said it was because of my fears, but I knew better.

My new business didn’t feel right. There was no woo-woo in it. The truth was I hated every aspect of it.

So I did the unthinkable and I flushed it.

But it was far from a waste.

I started to follow my intuition. It was screaming at me to try weight-loss coaching, so I did. Within a week, I worked with three women. I took it as a sign and kept going. Six months later, I was working with regular clients. But something still felt off.

Even though I liked weight-loss coaching, I wasn’t in love with it. And then I really took a chance on me and let myself work with manifesting. I love everything about it. I didn’t know how it would come to life. All I knew was I had to try.

My business, which I adore, is now evolving at lightning speed.

Giving myself permission didn’t happen overnight. That was a process that started 10 years ago. At the time, I went looking for a better way to live. I was miserable. I took it one step at a time. Little by little, I owned my shit and cleared it.

I got myself out of depression. I left my corporate job. I went to coaching school. I wrote a book. I started accepting and exploring my spirituality. I started learning Theta Healing. I got serious about building a business that would not only help the world, but support me in the process. I started invested in training and coaching.

My dreams got bigger and better as I gave myself permission to go after them.

To this day, I continue to clear my blocks as I manifest my business. I come up against my shit every day. If I didn’t, I wouldn’t have a business to speak of. Most likely, I’d still be wasting hours on Facebook. (Yes, that used to be me.)

So now I teach others how to manifest and help them clear their blocks – because the world is a better place when women are able to shine their light. I like to think of as a ripple effect. Small changes lead to massive changes for the better.

Want some help to clear your shit so you can manifest?

Join me for a clarity call and let’s talk about how we might work together. Click here to sign-up.


How do you get into the vortex?

Get your mind, body and spirit into alignment.

But what does alignment mean? How do you get there and, more importantly, how do you stay there?

Get all the answers on today’s video. Click play.

Now that you’ve seen the video, tell me what you learned in the comments below. Are you out of alignment or in?

Three Questions to Ask Yourself to Manifest More Easily


Are you struggling to manifest a successful business?

If so, you are definitely not alone.

It doesn’t have to be so hard. You can make it easier by asking yourself these three questions.

Question #1: Do you know what you desire?

All desires are wants, but not all wants are desires. A desire is a want that is driven by something inside of you (inside your heart). Anything that is not a true desire is a wish.

To answer this question, take out your list of what you want to manifest. If you don’t have one, make one. Once you have your list, go through each item one at a time and ask yourself if it’s a wish or a desire. For each item, ask yourself how much you really want it on a scale of 1.10. If it’s less than 7, it’s a wish.

My list used to include, “Pay off mortgage by October.” But that was a wish, not a true desire. On the scale of 1..10, I was a 1. It was just a wish and not a very strong one at that.

For the things that aren’t true desires, dig a little to find your inner motivation. Ask yourself why you want it. And why it’s important to you. Keep digging until you have your answer. When you find it, write it on your list. You may also discover you don’t want it, in which just cross it out or even replace it with something you do desire.

In my case, I crossed off paying off my mortgage by October and added “pay the mortgage on time.” This might sound weird, but I felt relieved as soon as I did it. I didn’t need the extra pressure.

Getting in touch with what you desire is more than just getting specific about what you want. It’s about reaching inside of yourself to get in touch with what motivates you to manifest. When you do that, taking action to manifest will get exponentially easier.

Question #2: Have you really decided to go after what you want?

If you aren’t 100 percent committed to manifesting what you desire, then you are going to struggle. The universe will keep you on the fence until you decide to get off.

How committed are you to growing your business?

What are you ready to commit 100 percent of your efforts to in order to manifest it? This doesn’t have to be all-encompassing or include your entire business. In fact, some of the easiest things to manifest are simple. So maybe right now you want to figure out who you want to work with and why.

When I started my business, I tried to commit to the whole thing. But honestly, all I wanted (my desire) was to start seeing clients. I was completely stuck until I started to focus on what I desired, rather than the big picture. That’s because the big picture was too scary for me to consider.

Commit to what you truly desire and your business will progress. Finishing this first step will lead to the next. Your desires will change along the way.

Question #3: Do you believe what you want is possible?

If you don’t believe what you want is possible, then you are setting up yourself for failure. You might as well not attempt to manifest at all.

I’m not saying to stop manifesting. I’m suggesting you work on believing and removing the doubt.

It might not be completely possible for you to believe, but you can fake it. Start by getting in touch with the feeling. If you can feel something, you can believe it. The more you feel something, the more you vibrate at the frequency of what you want. Then you become a magnet for it.

Try one of these methods to get in touch with the feelings.

Visualize: Close your eyes and see it in your mind’s eye. Feel what it’s like during and after. If you can’t visualize, what if you could? Can’t feel, what if you could? It’s a game.

Play the As-If Game: Live your life as if what you want is already yours. If you want to manifest abundance, start shopping in stores you think are only for the rich. If you want to be fully booked, start setting time aside for regular activities in your business, accounting, follow-ups, marketing. If you want to go on holiday, book time off in your calendar and start browsing the internet for vacation ideas.

If you struggle to believe, engage a coach to help you remove your blocks. It’s worth it. (That happens to be my speciality. Details here.)

If you’re struggling to manifest, make sure you tap into your desire and then commit to the process. Before you start, make sure you work on believing.



How to Stop Absorbing Other People’s Emotions and Energy



Are you easily overwhelmed or anxious in public? Or are you a sponge for other people’s emotions?

Both can cause you to feel too much and shut down energetically. When you do, you lower your vibration and then you stop manifesting.

But it’s easy to protect yourself. Check out this video for 3 tips on how to do just that.These are simple techniques and do not require you to imagine a bubble of light around you. (I’m not a fan.)




I want to hear from you.

What did you think of the tips?

What’s your best trick for releasing emotion that don’t belong to you?





How to keep your vibration up when the shit hits the fan?



What do you do when stuff doesn’t go according to plan?

Do you stress out and lose your shit? Curl into a fetal position and crawl under a table? Or do you stay calm and carry on?
When the shits hits the fan, your reaction determines how long it takes you to deal with it. Managing your reactions with ease and grace keeps you in a high vibration, which allows you to continue manifesting what you want.

When things go wrong, the #1 risk is you falling into the trap of focusing on problems, rather than solutions.

When that happens, you send out a message to the universe that you want more problems. Of course, the universe being the universe, it gives you more of what you asked for. In other words, it keeps you stuck.

It’s so easy to stay stuck. (It happens to everyone including me). That’s why I’m bringing you three tips to help you get out of the trap.

With practice, you’ll be able to avoid the trap all together.

Tip #1: Start Laughing

When something goes wrong, the best way to deal with it is to start laughing.

Laughter dissolves the energy and keeps your vibration high. And it keeps you focusing on solutions.

It doesn’t matter what you laugh at, just laugh. It can be a funny cat video on YouTube. (Personally, I love watching cats falling into bath tubs.)

Find a way to laugh at yourself. I’m a huge drama queen. I used to get stuck in despair all the time when things didn’t go according to plan. When I catch myself in this trap now, I roll my eyes and say, “I’m doing it again. That’s just so funny. Stop it.” It always puts a smile on my lips and I start laughing.

Laughter is the easiest way out of problems.

Try it.

Tip #2 Ask what-if?

The easiest way to get out of a low vibration and into a high one is to ask a what-if question.

When things aren’t going according to plan, ask yourself:

What if all of this was resolved? Wouldn’t it feel amazing?

My favorite question is, “What if I was an expert at sales? Wouldn’t it feel amazing?” Just saying it makes me feel better and gets me out of my negative mindset.

The what-if question works because it changes your perspective right away. This is the space you want to be in in order to solve problems.

Try it.

Tip #3 Stay calm and carry on

Whenever things aren’t going well, do not panic.

If you panic, you are telling the universe to keep sending you more reasons to panic.

Stay calm and carry on.

If you feel the panic rise, take a few deep breaths. Find laughter. Ask the what-if question.

Then take it one step at a time and remember you will figure this out and you will get through it.

Trust in yourself. You’ve got this.

You cannot always control how things unfold, but you can choose how you respond and therefore get through them.

When problems come up, find laughter. Ask a what-if question and raise your vibration. Finally, stay calm and carry on.

Now I want to hear from you.

What’s your #1 tip for getting through things when they don’t go according to plan?

Let me know in the comments.


Are you bitter about your business?

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Perhaps, the time, the effort and money you’ve invested have left you feeling resentful? Or maybe you’re frustrated that things are taking longer than you planned? Or you regret even starting your business in the first place?

That’s normal.

Most entrepreneurs (myself included) have been there at some point in time.

The question is what are you going to do about it? You have two choices: deal with it or don’t.

If you choose not to deal with it, the bitterness will fester and grow inside of you like poison. And that will send out a message to the Universe which attracts more bitterness and resentment. That means more struggles. That’s the Law of Attraction.

If you’ve been struggling for a while, there’s a good chance this bitterness and resentment is already playing havoc with your ability to manifest. Not dealing with it will actually keep you from making the impact on the world you came here to make.

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