How to manifest like a pro

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Did you know the universe can help you manifest anything you want? Including more clients and cash?

The universe is always supporting you in manifesting your deepest inner desires. This gets tricky sometimes because the universe will help you manifest things you didn’t even know you asked for.

As humans, we all have conflicting desires and the universe picks up on your strongest signals. So in order to manifest what you want, you need t
o learn how to amplify your signals – by getting super clear on what you want.

The first step is to make a list of what you want. There are no right or wrong lists, but there are things you can do to make sure you are clear in your desires and sending the universe the right signals.

Here are five tips for asking for what you want with clarity:

#1 Be specific.

Your job is to be clear about what you truly desire.

As easy as it is to understand this concept, it’s also one of the hardest things for most of us to do. In general, people have an idea of where they want to go, but no idea what it will look like once they have it. We say we want abundance, joy and happiness. But what does that look like in your life? An abundance of what? Happiness about what?

If you stay general, the universe will decide for you how abundance, joy and happiness arrive.

If you want to be happy, the universe might send you all kinds of things that make you happy – that you don’t really want.

What if you asked for joy and the universe brought you a baby?

What if you want abundance and instead of sending you clients, the universe sends you a rich husband you don’t love?

Stuff like this happens all the time. The universe is funny that way.

It is your birthright to choose how you manifest your desires. So be specific about what you actually want. It will save you a ton of time and frustration.

Here are a few questions to help you get started:

  • What do you want?
  • What do you desire?
  • How do you want to feel?
  • What will your life be life be like when you do receive it?
  • What will it feel like to have this in your life?
  • What is your true intention

There is no such thing as being too specific. You do your part and the universe will the do the rest.

#2 Check that everything on your list excites you.

This is your life.

That means everything on your list should excite you. You have the right to be in love with what you do, your business. Exercise that freedom. If you are not in love with what you do or who you help, or what you are offering, change it.

Remember, there are no shoulds or have tos. You set the rules.

#3 Don’t ask when something will happen.

Scratch all requests that sound like, “I want to know when I will have abundance.”

The universe doesn’t decide. You do.

You decide it’s yours to claim and then the universe helps you get it. That means you must assume it’s yours for the taking and it’s possible now.

Replace those types of requests with requests for guidance. “How can I manifest even more money now?”

Assume everything is possible. Better yet, assume it’s already done.

#4 Forget negatives statements.

Scratch anything from your list that’s in the negative.

For example:

  • I don’t want to be poor.
  • I don’t want these clients.
  • I don’t want to take more training.
  • I don’t want to gain another ten pounds.

There are three reasons for this.

First, the negative doesn’t mean you want the opposite. For example, what does not being poor look like?

Second, the universe doesn’t actually hear the word don’t (and can’t). When you state things in the negative, you are actually saying them in the positive. “I don’t want to be poor,” turns into “I want to be poor.”

Third, the law of attraction says you attract what you focus on. By focusing on what you don’t want, you attract more of it.

Want what you want because you desire it, not because you don’t have it.

Scratch all negatives and replace with positive affirmations.

#5 Stretch the amount you request.

Go beyond wanting just enough. Just enough to pay the bills. Just enough to be comfortable, but not too comfortable.

It’s not somehow wrong to ask and to receive all you desire.

It’s your birth right to ask for of all what you want. You aren’t at this planet to be miserable. You have the right to be happy and rich if that is what you desire.

It is also possible for you to manifest it.

Ask for everything you want, plus a bit more to enjoy life.

You can stretch as much as you like, but you must believe it’s actually possible to receive it. You can ask for a million dollars, but if in your mind it’s impossible, it’s going to be impossible to manifest.

Specify something that is possible. Keep stretching it as you get closer to it.

You have a birthright to ask for everything you want. (Click to tweet.)

Remember, we manifest what we want by being specific and double-checking we actually want what’s on the list.

Then we replace negative statements with positive.

Don’t forget to stretch beyond your comfort zone and leave room for the universe to figure how to bring clients and money to you.

Get your list ready because I’ll be back next week with tips on how the ask the universe for what you want.

 

How to Manifest When You’re Filled with Doubt and Fear

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You can let doubt and fear stop you from showing up in your business. Or you can accept that it’s part of the process and do good work anyway.

Self-doubt makes us surf Facebook and stalk blogs of women we admire. It makes us put together websites and only occasionally tell people what we do (and then take a day to recover from the anxiety).

It stops us from doing what we need to do to succeed – because we’re so sure we aren’t good enough.

Not being visible. Not following your heart. Not promoting yourself. Giving up far too easily.

Self-doubt and fear get in the way of manifesting clients and cash.

For me, that meant taking a full year to grow my list to 100 subscribers – and most were friends and family. My website was flat. Truth be told, I kind of didn’t like being in business.

But the moment I started to let my heart guide me, instead of fear and doubt, things started to change.

I have five-figure months. I’m totally in love with the work I do, how I show up and how I help people. My list continues to grow, as does my audience and client base.

Still, I want to give more. It feels awesome.

When you let your heart guide you, instead of fear and doubt, you manifest a business you love.

I know it’s easier than done. That’s why I want to bring you my top three tips for getting shit done when you are filled with self-doubt. Because it doesn’t have to get in the way.

Tip 1: Send the FEAR and Doubt to the Couch to watch TV.

I used this tip all the time with my clients.

Whenever my clients are overwhelmed by fear and doubt, I ask them to imagine the fear and doubt as a light. Then I ask them to imagine this light coming out of their heart into a brilliant ball of light. Then I ask them to send it to the couch to watch TV. Whenever clients do this, they are able to separate themselves from the fear and bring their awareness elsewhere.

I also use this trick whenever I teach people how to do angel readings. Whenever I announce the exercise, the room goes completely quiet and the tension goes up. In other words, fear and doubt. After putting the fear and doubt on the couch, 99 percent of them are able to do the reading. I have to tell you it’s always an honor to watch them do something that just a minute believed to be impossible. It’s magical.
Next time you experience fear and doubt, give a try.

TIP 2: Take baby steps outside your comfort zone.

Noting happens without action, so it’s important to actually start doing even if they are just baby steps even there is doubt and fear.

What can you do to stretch yourself just a little bit outside your comfort zone?

A friend of mine wanted to do motivational talks, but he was afraid of talking to strangers. He started by going to the park and asking strangers for the time. Then he started striking up conversations with complete strangers. One baby step at a time, he finally made his way to motivational speaking. Now he speaks to an audience of 30 or more every single week.
What would stretch you outside your comfort zone?

Not sure, what about?

  • Tell 15 people what you do in your business.
  • Ask 15 people to tell you what your top three qualities are.
  • Ask at least five women you know to interview them for your business.
  • Send a promotion to your list.

I want to know… what will you do stretch yourself outsize your comfort zone today.

 

TIP 3: Dig, appreciate, release, do.

Digging is the process of figuring out the real issue.

It’s never about the fear or doubt itself. There’s always something underneath that’s even more important. For me, it’s like a brick wall. Your current fear is a top brick. You can take it off, but you still have the rest of the wall to deal with. It’s much more efficient to actually dig and find the bottom brick and clear that one.

The best way to dig is to get curious and yourself the five W questions.

Here’s an example:

I’m afraid to ask clients to interview them. Why are you afraid? Because they will say no. What happens then? I will feel feed bad, like I did something wrong. What happens when you do something wrong? I get punished. What’s the worst part about being punished? I’m get locked in my room. What happens then? I’m separate from everyone.  The real fear is the fear of being separate.

Once you find the real issue, you must appreciate and release it.

There’s lots of techniques to release a fear, but EFT works well (google it). When I work with clients, I use techniques from Theta Healing (energy healing modality).

If you need help to do this, get it. It’s well worth the investment.

Follow up with action.

However you deal with it, don’t forget to actually following with doing. Without action, nothing happens.

It’s not possible to have zero doubt or fears, but you deal with them determines how good you are at manifesting cash and clients.
I’ve just given you three ways to deal with tips. You can send off to watch TV, ignore it and take baby steps or you can go a little deeper.

Your fears are holding you back from manifesting more clients now. Here’s how to fix that. Take my FREE training. Click here to get your access.

Which fear are you facing today? Which tip will you use to help you face it? The soon you deal with it, the sooner you will manifest what you’ve been dreaming off.

How to Manifest Clients that Chase You … It’s Possible!

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I used to be in the business of chasing clients.

I did everything with one goal in mind: get people (it didn’t matter who) to hire me and fork over some money. I gave lots of free stuff with the expectation that people would buy from me.

Very few did.

Time went by and I grew disappointed and frustrated. I just

couldn’t figure out what was happening. I was usually so good at getting things done. Then my business coach rocked my world. She told me this, “You are not in the business of chasing clients.”

That’s when the lightbulb when on. My job wasn’t to convince people to buy from me. My job was to get out there, give people choices, and let them choose for themselves I didn’t need to pull clients to me, I needed to let clients come to me if they so choose.

I stopped chasing clients that day.

I’m now having more fun in my business than I have in years. I’m also helping way more people. That feels awesome.

The only way to manifest more clients is to stop chasing them and let them come to you.

Have you been chasing clients? Ready to stop?

Here are 3 things you must do if you want clients to do the chasing instead.

  1. Be helpful without expectation.

Make a decision right now that you are no longer in the business of chasing clients. Write down, “No Chasing.” on a sticky note and stick it to your computer. That’s just not what you do anymore.

Instead go out and be helpful.

Avoiding doing it because you want people to hire you. Give from the heart.

Trust me, you’ll receive hundreds of heartfelt thanks!

I’m not saying let go of the need and desire to have paying clients. You need that desire in order to manifest it. What I am saying is stop deciding how that should happen. Tit for that just doesn’t work.

  1. Become the Magnet

As an entrepreneur you have a magnetic ability.

As a magnet, you extend your energy outward into the universe. This energy then magnetized potential clients to you. The beauty of it is that it’s based on free will.  As a magnet, you do not attempt to convince. As a magnet, you simply let people know who you are and how you can help them.

Your job as a magnet is to let people get to know, like, and trust you.

To do that you must create opportunities for people to get know, like, trust you. You need to create lots of these opportunities. And you must do so consistently. Remember it takes seven touch points before people know, like, and trust you enough to buy from you.

  1. Answer this, “What do I want?”

In order for the universe to help you, you must know what you want. In order for you take action and to believe that things possible, you must first know what you want. In order to go out and become the magnet you are meant to be, you must first know who you want to attract.

Don’t believe me? Consider this example.

When I first thought Theta Healing (energy healing modality), I was super clear that I wanted to teach classes so that I could afford to take more Theta Healing classes. Within 8 months I had manifested 25K and 42 students. More than enough to cover the cost of the training.

As soon as the training was done, I stopped manifesting students.

It wasn’t for the lack of trying though. I was lucky to get one person for a weekend workshop. The people that I did manage to book mostly cancelled. As hard as this was, I wasn’t surprised. I knew was because I just didn’t know if I wanted to teach or not. The universe heard my confusion and kept my classes empty.

You must help the universe by knowing what you want. Start with the following questions:

  • What do you want?
  • Who do you want to work with?
  • What problems do you solve for them?
  • How do you solve it from them?
  • How much tie do you want to spend working in a week?
  • Do you really want to leave your day job?

If you don’t know what you want, that’s totally cool. Give yourself permission to start with baby steps. You don’t need to have it all figured out. What does your heart tell you? Listen to it, it will guide you.

Everything is possible, but you must first know what it is you want.

So I’ve just shared with you 3 things you must do if you want to stop chasing clients and have clients chase you.  Go out and be helpful and become so magnetic that people can’t resist you. Before you do that all of that, don’t forget to clear on what you want.

If you need a little 1:1 help to call your clients into your life, check out “Super Charge Your Client Magnet.”

So now I want to hear from you:

Are you still chasing clients? If not, any hints for the rest of us?

Let me in the comment box below.