What kind of horse do you want to be?

I remember the day like it was yesterday. 

My mom loaded all of four of us kids and drove us to a place where did they horse treks. 

Being 8, I’m excited, my heart is jumping out of my chest and can’t believe my luck as I picked my white horse with brown spots. 

We climbed on, put our feet in the stirrups and got on our way. Horse after horse just following the guide. If you’ve ever done this, you know that my only job was to sit there – I was doing absolutely nothing, but sitting there. 

Everything was going well until… 

My horse decided to hang a left and go down the ravine. With my feet in the stirrups, I grabbed the closest tree and held on for dear life and that’s where I stayed until HELP came. 

Now what the heck am I telling you do this? 

Because you’re not meant to follow the leader – you’re meant to create your own PATH. 

One of the biggest mistakes I’ve made, and one I see many smart beautiful women making in business, is following the leader telling you that there’s magic formula’s.  Follow me and you’ll succeed in the next XX days.  

But it doesn’t work that way… 

We all need to learn from one our leaders, but then we need to make a LEFT when it’s right for us even when they say, “that’s not part of our system.” 

It can get tricky because how do you know if it’s NOT fear getting in the way? The solution is to quiet your mind and just reconnect with your connection to Source energy. Go up to God and ask. You can also journal this out. 

Now even if you end up taking a left and holding to a tree for dear life, the Universe will be there to support you. 

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Dead last …

Today I wanted to share a quick story about how I finally ran a 5K race. 

My last 5K race was 12 years ago.  Organized by one of the local YMCA’s, the sun was shinning, and I was thrilled & proud to be doing it because I’d been running for weeks and I figured it would be a breeze.  

And then … 

The race started and I realized it was all up very steep up-hill! As my lungs screamed for air, I walked very slowly as I watched every one else run like they were gazelles.  

I finished dead last and gave up running. 

I tried to pick it again over up over the years, but the same thing would happen. I’d get a little bit o momentum, I’d run behind everyone else and I’d get discouraged and I’d stopped. Each time my self-esteem would go down and it would take me longer and longer to start running again. 

Then a couple of months ago I finally picked it up again and I’m now running 5K three times a week. At least one of those times is up-hill.

So why am I telling you this? 

Because my learning to run is a lot like most what most entrepreneurs go through. You get all excited about something, you start to take action and then realize it’s like trying to walk the steepest hill you’ve ever climbed all while watching every one else glide right past you. 

Know what I mean? 

Today I want to share the lessons I’ve learned with running with you in the hopes that they’ll inspire you to keep going in your business. 


  • Nothing is impossible, but you do have to decide that you want it first. What do you want? Have you really decided to go after it or are you just like hoping that it will happen? 

  • It doesn’t matter if you’re last because there’s no such thing. There’s just where you are in this moment on any given day. Stop comparing. If you must compete with someone, compete with yourself. 

  • Keep track of the wins. So often in business we look at the big wins and measure only that, but the truth is that the small wins is what builds your confidence. Running for 30 seconds was my initial win. Every time I lace my shoes, it’s a win. What wins do you have in your business?
  • Don’t panic when you have bad days, just keep going instead of “losing” your shit. The only thing that matters is that you keep going. I don’t know how long it will take for you to get to the finish, all I know is that you won’t get there if you don’t take the next step. If you have to lose your shit, put a time limit on it.


Now that you’ve read the above, what’s your takeaway? How will you apply this to your business? What gem do you walk away with for yourself? 

Raise your accountability by hitting reply and letting me know. 

You are the Goddess Rising and you are capable of anything. You don’t have to do it alone. If you’re wanting a little bit of help or wanting to know how we can work together, I invite you to join me for a Goddess Rising breakthrough call here. 

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It’s a complimentary call where we’ll get you clear about your vision, figure out what’s holding you back and create a plan to move forward. If there’s a good match between our visions, I may invite you to become a client this month. 

See you soon, 

{Tap Into The Universe} How do I get my confidence back and breakthrough

Earlier this week, I received the following question …

“I have identified all my fears and blocks that are preventing me from building and expanding my successful business. I had a lot of shame about not being in a better financial place in my life. I feel like I’m repelling my ability to consistently attract clients, even though I know that I’m really good at my work.

I’ve had moderate success with my online business. Comes and goes. I’m working through deep-seated fear, unworthiness and self-doubt.
Have done tons of programs and read tons of books. Trying to visualize and shift my vibration but then I get even more frustrated that I don’t seem to ever break through and I find myself back in struggle.

How can I break through to the confidence I need to succeed at my goal of $10k a month,”

Anonymous.

 

It’s such a great question and I think so relevant to so many people, which is why I decided to take a few emails to answer it properly.How can I break through the confidence I need to succeed at my goal o $10K a month?

When I ask to be shown intuitively what’s going…

I see you standing in a desert surrounded by mountains. You’ve got a little bit of water, but you’re almost out. You’ve already tried several paths, but each time you get to the top of a mountain you realize that you’re not “there” yet and that there are more mountains to come. Sometimes you back track, sometimes you stay put.

Sound familiar?

Without knowing you, I’m guessing that you’ve lost faith. Oh you want to believe in your business, but the struggle has been REAL and you’re filled with doubt. Can I really do this? Is this even possible? Am I dreaming in color?

All of that is normal.

Doubt will never go away.

And that doesn’t mean you can’t believe in yourself and keep going.

In fact, if you don’t believe in yourself, nothing you do will EVER work out. You will just stay stuck in old patterns & beliefs. You’ll keep climbing mountains until you’re exhausted for the rest of your life with barely enough water to sustain you.

Here’s how you get started believing in yourself again …

  • “STOP” trying so hard. Don’t clear more blocks. Don’t take more action. Do something that raises your spirits instead. This could take an hour, a day, or even a week. Do it without judgement until you feel good.
  • Feel your feelings without judging them. Make a list of everything you’re thinking & feeling about your business. Why are you ashamed? What have you done wrong? Then go through and find the gift in everyone of those experiences. The GIFT is there, it’s always there. Find gratitude for those experiences.
  • Start building your confidence by creating a list of wins every day. Review/add/modify every night before you go to sleep to sleep. It can be as small as I made a sales call or as big as I reached my first million dollars.  The more wins you have, the more confidence you will get.

You are the Goddess Rising and it’s your 1000% birth right to believe in yourself. Claim it!!!

That’s the first step to getting your confidence and reaching your $10K month. I’ll be back tomorrow to talk about the next steps.

You don’t have to do this alone. 

I want to help, which is why I created the GET ON THE FAST TRACK.

It’s a 6-week training designed to help you find your confidence, create a clear path to your goals all while letting of the struggle.

We start May 30th.

Clear the link the get all the details and save your seat: 

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By the end of the six weeks, you’ll have your confidence back, you’ll know how to sustain it and have a clear path to the next step. You’ll learn the right way to clear your “blocks” (more on that later).

 

What to do when you want to quit?

Have you had so many failures in your business that it’s zapped your self-esteem and confidence? Like maybe you want to quit because of it. 

So today I thought I’d share with you a few steps as to how to get your confidence back so you can do what you need to do to do what you need to do to have a bigger impact & get paid what you’re worth. 

First things first …

If you’re in a place of darkness, i get it. I’ve been there and so has every entrepreneur on the planet.Last December I was depressed and on the edge of quitting. I seriously thought about quitting because getting a six-figure job would be just so much easier than building a six-figure business. I even started to look for a job.  

I had lost all hope that “this” dream would ever work. 

Then I reached out and asked for help and I found myself actually making progress. My message got clearer. I got excited about my business. I found my confidence & voice. I stopped letting fear get the better of me. 

I just kept taking one step in front of the other. 

What I can tell you is that confidence isn’t something that comes from results, it something that comes from within. Don’t get me wrong. you can borrow your coaches & mentors faith in you if you don’t have it yet, but at some point you will need to develop my own.  Only then will you truly stand in your power. Only then will you be able to see your value and to charge what you’re worth. 

So if you’re finding yourself in that place of darkness, 

I want you to know that it is possible for you to get to the other side. You still have value. You are a still a Goddess Rising. You are capable. You are worthy & deserving.

How do you get to the other side… 

  • Breathe & feel your feelings. I get it. You don’t want to admit failure or that you’re feeling defeated. Make a list of everything you’re feeling. Acknowledge it. This allows the “stuck” energy to flow again.
  • Make peace with it.  I’m not saying that you have to like the struggle you’re currently experience, I’m saying that you have to find the good in the bad. For instance, when I wanted to quit last December, it pushed me to find my confidence and to be more authentic. It pushed me to go through the fear. Every “hard” moment has a purpose. Find it and you will be able to move on.
  • Get clear as to what you want and why you want it? Don’t make things up here. Just identify what it’s in your heart’s desire and go from there. If you’re not sure that you still want a business then go more general then that.
  • What is your next step? Focus on the next step and how can it be a win. Sending out an email. Inviting people into your list. Doing sales calls. It might also be to find the right people to support you and to ask for help (that’s what turned things around for me). They are all steps. What is your next step that you can take today? Start making a list of these because it will build up your confidence.
  • Focus on taking Action and getting through it.


The only alternative is to quit and I know  that you are not going to do that. I can’t tell you how how often you’ll find yourself having a “hard” moment in your business or “how” long it will last, but I can tell you that you will get through. 

Feel your feelings, focus and take action.  That’s it. That’s all you have to do. 

In case you’re wondering, I don’t have it all figured it out. I don’t believe I ever will. All I know for sure is that I am committed to helping a million entrepreneurs find their confidence so that we can change the world together. The only I have to do is take the next step. 

if you’re ready for a little bit of help, I invited you to join for a FREE breakthrough coaching session. We’ll work together to figure out your next step. If we figure out that our visions match up, I will also invite you to join one of my programs. 

Click the link to apply and book your 1-1 time with me. 

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See you soon,

Want to know your purpose?


I feel you. 

I spent years searching for my purpose, hoping for a clue and hoping that it would suddenly fix my life. It’s not until I finally got the BRAVE to walk my path that it got clear.

And then there was that moment… 

I’m in meditation and I’m being asked, “why am I here?” And the answer came so clearly, so powerfully that I couldn’t help myself – I stood up and declared it to the whole workshop (I was supposed to be quiet and just follow along).

I was shocked by how simple it was and by the fact that I’d known it all along.  

Since then I’ve worked with a Lot of spiritual entrepreneurs and I’ve realized that they too have all known their purpose, but that they didn’t thought they didn’t.  

So today I wanted to shed some light as to what is actually going on. My intention is to help you get clear on your purpose and really take that next step on your journey. 

You ready? 

If you’re struggling with this question, it’s because 1 of 3 things: 


1) You discount it like that can’t be it. 

So the other day I’m a in a healing session and my client said that his purpose is to help other people love themselves. He knew it all along, but it just didn’t trust yourself to really acknowledge it and because he was afraid of what it would mean if he actually did. 

If you want to remember your purpose, take the pressure off by releasing all obligations. Take out a journal, connect with your heart, and let yourself dream, “if I knew my purpose, it would be?” 

2) You don’t know “how”. 


The truth is that this is where 98% of people get hung up. 

It’s like you somehow thing that you can play only one note of a guitar when you in fact have the whole guitar and an infinite amount of ways to create melodies & music of your heart. 

The real culprit here is FEAR. 

It’s what keeps you procrastinating and event saying, “I can’t do that.” It’s sneaky too  because FEAR will hide behind emotional reasoning. 

Listen, you don’t have to quit your job. You don’t have to start a business. You don’t even have to become a healer or a coach. You could do your life’s work in a corporate job. You have the power to choose the “how” (that’s FREE will) and it will feel good to you. 

The secret here here to focus on the next step. 

If you were living with purpose today, what would you be doing? What would you be saying? Doing? 

Then go out and be that person today. You might be surprised what happens when you do. 

Knowing your finding purpose is just the first step, unleashing your potential is the tough part. 😉 

If you’re feeling inspired, I invite you to join me for my latest master class, ” 5-Steps To Finding Your Passion & Confidence So You Can Live With Passion & Create A LIFE You LOVE” if you haven’t already. 

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Have a question about living your purpose? Hit reply and let me know. 

Tap into Infinite Potential

You have infinite potential and I see you expressing it in the world creating a life you love.

I see you living as a Goddess Rising in the world. Being connected to source. Expressing your truth. Owning your path. Acknowledging what you desire, asking for what you desire, taking action and receiving. And doing it all with love.

That’s what I see when I see you.

How are you when I tell you have infinite potential?

You’re probably hopeful, but is there a part of you that’s like really uncomfortable? You kidding me, right? Maybe you’re even resentful, angry or bitter.

I know exactly what’s that like because I used to feel that way.

When my friend Glenn told me, “I look into your eyes and see potential,” I wanted to argue with him (it wasn’t just him, but everyone who said something similar). Can’t you see I’m not living up to it and that I’m a failure? That I’m not good enough. Why can’t you see what I see?

Know what I mean?

You probably have a similar story. The story is just a story, but the real problem is that it will keep you stuck and stop you from making progress. It will also keep you from seeing solutions and from receiving what you truly desire from the Universe.

The secret here is to FEEL Your emotions so you can make room to express your truth.

I’ll be honest, taking a time out to feel your feeling isn’t much fun, but it is necessary if you want to express & get to live your potential.

I want to help you do that, so here’s a quick exercise so…

Here’s a quick exercise…

  1. Pick a situation where your feeling stuck and you want it be different.
  2. Write down everything you’re feeling about this situation and why you feel that way without judging them as good/bad. For instance, I feel angry about this because ABC.
  3. Give your feelings color and image it is surrounding you and send love to it until it dissipates. I always see a big giant purple egg (ß Yes I’m weird). If you have a hard time sending staying focused on sending love, you can also do the Ho’oponopono prayer. Focus on the energy and repeat, ” I forgive you. Thank you. I’m sorry. I love you.” Repeat until the energy shifts. Usually 3-4 times.
  4. Take 3-5 slow deep breaths and image unconditional love traveling into you from the Universe. This will replenish you and bring you a sense a peace
  5. Once you’re feeling better (don’t worry, you will), tell the Universe you’re open to receiving a different outcome and clarity on the next steps you should take. You might receive it instantly or it might come throughout the day. Pay attention to your nudges. You never know how the Universe is going to reach you with your request.

If you’re feeling stuck and want to create something in your life, don’t skip this. DO THIS!!!

If you can’t do it right this minute (I really don’t expect you too), put it in your calendar and come back to it. Hit reply and let me know when you’ll actually do it and what is the situation you’ll do it for.

Here’s to you Goddess Rising,

I’ve lost my passion! How do I get it back?

Have you lost your passion for your work? Like something blew out the candle that used to burn so brightly?

I know exactly what’s that like because it seems that my passion comes and goes so quickly, it’s a little whiplash. One day I’m so stoked and super productive and the next day I procrastinate

Know what I mean? It’s nuts! 

Anyway, I’ve been doing a lot of Goddess Rising Breakthrough sessions AND I realized just prevalent this problem is, which is why I’m choosing to address the following question in this week’s tap Into the Universe:

I’ve lost my passion? How do I get it back?

Here it goes…

When I look intuitively into your space, this is what I’m shown …

You’re a full grown adult and you’re half-through a climbing rope.

At the moment, you’re surrounded by a very thick cloud and you can’t see anything. All you can do is feel the rope that you’re holding on too.

You can’t go up because you’re too tired & exhausted.

You can’t come down because you the rope been cut-off.

You’re stuck.

Sound familiar?

That’s it what’s like to have lost your passion.

You started off all excited and you started taking action (aka climbing the rope), but it got hard and you got tired. At some point, you lost clarity about what you wanted and where you were going (<– YEP, that’s the cloud).

That’s when the passion got replaced with frustration/exhaustion.

The problem isn’t that you’ve lost your passion, the problem is that you’ve gotten yourself stuck in other emotions and inaction.

You can’t feel passion when the energy isn’t flowing.

The KEY to getting your passion is to get your mind,body, soul energy flowing again, which allow you to release the emotions you’re feeling and allowing new ones to come back.

Here are a few steps to help you do this…

1) Make a list of everything you’re frustrated about in this situation.

Including “everything” on the list.

Things you’re pissed about it. things you’re ashamed about it.

It’s totally 1000% cool to have your emotions. Don’t hold back on your list.

2) Forgive yourself.

Go look in the mirror and repeat, “I forgive you for having created ABC.”

Every time I do this, I end up crying. I know it sounds silly, but don’t skip this step because it allows the emotions to be acknowledged and released, which you must do if you want to get unstuck.

Also, it feels GOOD!!!

3) Take your power back.

One of the big reasons you’ve gotten yourself stuck is you don’t think you have any options.

You can’t go up and you can’t go down.

You don’t “have” to do anything and thinking so is keeping yous stuck because you don’t think you have any option.

So give yourself permission to walk away completely. A great way to do this is to release your obligation to do be/do/have anything.

Next, you should journal about what you truly want.

Here are some prompts:

  • What do I want?
  • What do I want to feel?
  • Who do I want to be?
  • What do I have to let go of in order to make progress?
  • Finally make a decision about what you want and why you want it.

4) Take action even it’s a tiny one everyday

So along with clearing the emotions, it’s important to get the emotions flowing again. It doesn’t matter if you’re doing a research to figure out how, make a phone call, or something else. As long as you do something to move you forward.

Also, keep track of these actions as they’ll tell you’ve made progress.

5) Be grateful “every day”

Find something to be grateful for in this situation.

This raises your vibration and engages the Law of Attraction to work in your favor. The more you’re grateful you are, the more experiences you have to be grateful for and it allows you to get into the vibration of solutions.

Join the Discussion…

You’ve just learned five-steps to get unstuck and get your passion back.

So now I’m curious:

1) Did you have an ah-ha’s as you read the post?
2) Do you resonate with being on the climbing rope? If so, which aspects?
3) What “mini” action will you take today to increase your momentum?

Tell me in the comments. I can’t wait to hear about your journey.

See you soon,

Are sales calls ever going to get easier?

If you’ve ever wondered if sales calls are going to get easier than keep reading.

For this weeks Tap Into the Universe, I decided to answer the following question…

“Are sales call ever going to get easier?”

Because I was speaking to someone earlier this week and she could’t imagine closing the sale on a call she was about to have the next day. If you can’t believe that it’s possible, it won’t be – you won’t get a client who’s probably ideal for you either.

I also know that this is a common challenge for any business that uses enrollment conversations, which is why I’m choosing to write this question this week.

So reading your energy, I’m shown a vision …

You’re standing must on the outside of a merry-go-round.

It’s going very quickly. You’re poised to jump on, but it just keeps going faster and faster.

When you do finally take the leap, you fall flat on your face.

You turn to me  and give me this look of, WTF? But you dust your self and try again.

Feel familiar?

That’s what discovery calls are like for you!

 

Am I ever going to get on the merry-go-round?

Stop trying!

The real problem here is that you’re trying to be perfect. You think that you have to be on the merry-go-round and do everything right. Yo don’t and it’s messing with your head.

The best thing to do now is to treat your sales like a coffee date. You know, like a date where you’re going to be

RELAX!

It means that you should relax, focus on the person in front of you and get to know them.

 

It also means that your sales will get easier when you relax and treat this like a coffee date.  

Here’s a quick exercise to help you relax …

  1. Release your obligation to be perfect
  2. Imagine the person in front of you and scanning their energy. How do they feel? What do they need? See their heart and send them love.
  3. Every time you get nervous during the call, bring your awareness back to them by reconnecting with their heart.

 

The reason this works is that it brings your focus back to the person front of you instead of you – that’s the only reason why these calls are hard.

Go find three people that makes you a little bit nervous and scan them. See how you are before and after.  Let me know in the comments what you notice.

Also, Start using the mantra, ”What if sales were all super fun and easy? Wouldn’t that be nice?”

Join the Discussion…

 

Can you relate to the merry-go-round feeling?

Will try the scanning exercise?

What do you think would happen if you treated your sales call like a coffee date?

if you like it, share this blog with at least 3 people.

Much love,

P.S. If you have a question for the Universe, submit it on the form on the right (or below). You can also go here. When you submit your question, you help inspire everyone to manifest more LIFE and for that I’m really grateful.

Is this resistance a sign I should quit?

Welcome to this week’s edition of Tap Into the Universe.

If you’ve ever wondered if you should quit your dream because the struggle is just too much then keep reading.

Michelle submitted the following question …

“Spirit Guides. How do I know when you’re telling me to stop for my own good or if the resistance I feel is just fear?”  

Reading between the lines, I’m guessing she’s really struggling to manifest and somewhere along the time, she started to wonder if she should quit.

I love this question Michelle, so thank you for submitting it. It echoes the inner voice of so many entrepreneurs who are struggling to manifest their dreams.

Your Spirit Guides are showing me the following vision …

You’re standing behind a massive wall.

On the other side, there is nirvana (aka your desires).

You’re standing a few feet away from the massive wall that seems to be miles long. You’re all dirty, like you’ve been at this for a very long time.

You’re hands, and knuckles are bloody and your clutching a chisel.

You’ve been at it for a very long time and you’ve realized that if you keep using the chisel, you’re not going to get to the other side.

When I ask your Spirit Guides what you need to know…

They show me to take a few steps to the left and you will see an opening in the wall. There you can simply walk through and receive your desires.

Let me translate this into English…

The wall is a symbol of resistance.

You’ve been working hard to get through the wall of resistance for a very long time and over time you’ve lost your ability to see alternative solutions.

This happened because somewhere along the way you got ultra focused and you got super attached to getting results in a particular way.

Don’t beat yourself up – it happens to everyone.

Should you give up on this desire?

I’m shown a massive beating heart floating in the air while your guides are saying, “This is your heart’s desire, don’t you dare give up.”

Your desire is pure, and you truly want it. Because of this, you need to figure out a way.

The only time to give up on your dream is when it’s not a true heart’s desire. For example, a lot of entrepreneurs build offers what they think their clients want, but that they themselves don’t want. When this happens, there’s massive resistance and it means it’s time to find a better way.

The real problem here is that you’re attached to how your desire comes, so you’ve limited your options as to how the Universe could actually help you out.

It’s like you’ve put all your eggs in one basket.

What do you do now?

1) Get excited about your dream again

Take a few minutes and journal about your dream. Here are a few prompts to get you started:

  • My dream is …
  • My dream is important to me because …
  • I desire this because …
  • I like who I become in my dream because …
  • I’m excited about this dream because …

2) Let go of the how …

I now, this is easier said than done.

A lot of people get really confused as to how to do this and by doing so, they get even more attached to the how as the frustration grows.

The key is two-fold.

  • Decide that your actions are for creating opportunities. It’s like if you open door #1 with action #1 and then door #2 appears.
  • Do more. Make a list of all the actions you could be taking. Ask yourself if you’re missing opportunities because you’ve been so ultra focused on the lack of results. Once you have a list (at least 10 options), do as many as you can. The more you do, the more doors open. You never know where results are going to come from.

If you find that you cannot release the frustration around the action you’re taking, stop doing that for a while and find at least 2-3 alternative paths.

At the very least, this will help you find a path with less resistance. According to the vision, there is such a path.

Your guides are saying, “You know what it is.” It’s most likely the one that you’ve discounted because you think it won’t work.

That’s it – that’s what your Spirit Guides had to say.

Join the Discussion…

Do you resonate with the guidance that was given for Michelle? Do you think you’re too narrowly focused on the how? If so, what actions will you take to expand your vision?

Can’t wait to hear what you have to say in the comments below.

 

Much love,

P.S. If you have a question for the Universe, submit it on the form on the right (or below). You can also go here. When you submit your question, you help inspire everyone to manifest more LIFE and for that I’m really grateful.

Why aren’t my actions leading to results?

Welcome to this week’s edition of Tap Into the Universe.

If you’ve ever been confused as to why the actions you’re taking aren’t getting you the results you want then you’re going to love this week’s edition of Tap Into The Universe.

Pat submitted the following question …

 “The last three keynote presentations I did, was literally told I was the best speaker they’ve ever seen. In fact one apologized for not paying me more money. Which was cool. However there seems to be a block in really up leveling this piece of my business and income. Why?”

 

When I read the question, I can feel the frustration.

Pat is really asking two questions: If you’re taking action then shouldn’t you be getting results? What do you do when you don’t get the results you want?

Before I connect with her Spirit Guides, I just want to say that I don’t believe in coincidences.

If you’re reading this and you’re wondering the same questions, no matter the circumstances, the guidance that is given by Pat’s Spirit Guides is also for you.

Now when I check in with your Spirit Guides…

They are showing me a vision of you as a little girl watching you on stage as the woman you’ve become.

You’re so proud. You’re so excited.

As soon as you walk off stage, you turn your focus to an electronic board showing the number of sales that have come in.  It’s a little bit like an infomercial.

When people come to talk to you, you acknowledge them, and you chat, but you’re not 100% with them because your real focus is watching the results come in.

When I asked them why they walked away, money in hand, they say, “I’m not sure how she can help me.”

This happens over and over again.

What does this mean for you?

Seeing the little girl being so excited tells me that the stage is the right place for you and you should totally keep doing it. It implies total and complete alignment. Everything should feel this good in your business.

The problem isn’t the talk, the problem is the constant focus on the results.

Giving your attention to the numbers (results) that are not coming in stops the Law of Attraction from bringing them to you because you’re focus is on what’s not coming.

If you want results, you can’t focus on them.

Also…

By focusing on the results, you stop coming in from a place of service.

Whether or not they are consciously aware, your peeps know that your focus is not really on them. They want to be seen & heard. It’s also how you’ll discover what they are truly wanting.

I’m shown that they are seen and heard, they will offer gifts to you that were unexpected.

Bring in the same energy from the stage…

You should be having as much fun talking to them as you do when you’re on stage. The reason you’re magnetic on stage is that your mind is clear and that you’re totally focused on them.

When you bring that energy to the people that you talk too, no matter how they reached you, the sales will follow.

This is because it comes from your heart. You are truly in alignment!

Here’s what you do now to release the need to watch the results …

1. Reconnect to your Source Energy

Take a few deep breaths and imagine a ray of light, unconditional love, coming down from the ethers. Imagine it coming down through the top of your head down into your heart and into your feet.

Next…

Imagine yourself in your heart and imagine your inside light growing bigger and bigger and until it is much bigger than you. I like to visualize a candle and witness the flame get bigger and bigger until it includes all of me.

I know it’s tempting to skip this step, but don’t. It will help you reconnect to your Source energy. When you do that, you have access to infinite wisdom.

2. Ask for Guidance

This is really quite simple.

You can say a prayer or write down the words. Choose whichever is more comfortable for you.

“Dear Spirit Guides. I need help releasing my focus on the results that I’m not getting. How might I do that?”

If you don’t know why you’re block, you can also ask to be shown what’s blocking you and how to release it.

Then just breathe for a few minutes and allow the answer to come. Don’t force it (that’s key).

If you’re struggling to allowing, repeat the mantra… “All I have to do is breathe. The answer will come if it’s meant too.”

The answer might come to you in the form of an image or you might have a thought, a feeling, or a word.

Whatever you get first is the true inspiration.

Once you receive it, write it down and follow its guidance.

3. When you don’t get an answer.

Sometimes you won’t get an answer, but that doesn’t mean that you should stop there.

If an answer doesn’t come after a few minutes, try this.

Take out a pen & paper and finish the prompts…

  • If I knew what my spirit guides were trying to say, it would be …
  • If I knew what was blocking me, it would be …
  • If I knew how to release this block, it would be …

Feel free to use the change the prompts. Using a prompt is a useful way to get out of your head.

Extra note…

If you’re taking these steps and you’re feeling like the answer isn’t coming, that’s ok.

Stop forcing the answer to come. Just go out and do something fun. Focus on raising your vibe. When you feel good, try the exercise again.

You’ve had a chance to read what Pat’s Spirit Guides had to say…

So now I’m curious. Is the action you’re taking as much fun as Pat action of speaking on stages? Are you watching the results? If so, how will you release the block?

 

Can’t wait to hear what you have to say in the comments below.

 

Much love,

P.S. If you have a question for the Universe, submit it on the form on the right (or below). You can also go here. When you submit your question, you help inspire everyone to manifest more LIFE and for that I’m really grateful.