Hey Gorgeous –
This week, I’m excited to share the secrets of manifesting, especially helping you use it in your business to help you MANIFEST better clients for your biz.
Better clients mean a bigger impact. It’s going to be so much more fun to be in your business. In this video, you’ll also be invited to take-part in a meditation. I just SO LOVE doing guided meditations. I hope you’ll love it. Below the video you’ll find the first part of the video transcription. It’s a little bit cleaned up because I say, “AND” a lot.
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What is manifesting?
What does it mean for your business? Why should you use it? And how the heck do you use it in your business?
If anybody wants to join me in the open seat you can say call in and if you have any questions go ahead and type them into the message box, type /Q beforehand and it will show up on my screen and I’ll be answering those after we get through some of the basic steps and if I see them and feel like answering them, we’ll do that as well. Alright, so let’s get started.
So what is manifesting?
Manifesting is the art of co-creating with the universe to turn your ideas into reality. Now, I get that’s a pretty big concept.
What that basically means is that everything you do in this life time is manifested. Everything from your very first kiss to every meal. The difference is that we’re talking about manifesting consciously in our business and in our lives, so that we can really start to live our dreams. It’s almost like you can see or imagine what you want and now you want to turn it into reality.
You want a business with maybe 10-12 clients a week, regular clients, you want people in your high end packages, you want people in your programs and you want to be able to have that really big impact, and in order to do that you need to know how to manifest. Some people say that it’s enough to know the “how to” and that’s true. You need to know the how to.
Business training comes into play and you need to the action. But you also need to know how to do that and become and do that in alignment and keep your vibration up. Because manifesting is really about alignment. Alignment with your source, your spirit and that includes things like your mindset.
If your mindset is not in alignment with your dreams, then you’re going to have a big clash and it’s going to be very hard to manifest.
If your vibration is not in the right place, it’s going to be really hard to manifest.
You’re going to get things back that reflect that vibration. Lots of things affect vibration, what it really boils down to is feeling!
You’ve got to feel in order to receive it, and if you can’t feel it then you can’t be in alignment and you can’t receive.
Of course that goes hand in hand with action, and feeling, vibration and alignment equal results. That is what manifesting is and that is what we’re talking about today. You could try to do it without the universe and believing all that, but you know what I believe that we are spiritual beings and I want to use the power of the universe to manifest.
- What about you?
- Do you want to use the power of the universe to help you manifest in your business to help you have a greater impact? If you do, click on the little hands and let me know.
- Why do you want to learn how to manifest?
- What’s in it for you?
- What’s in it for your clients?
Now, the reason that I teach manifesting and I help clients manifest is because I want them to be able to have the greatest impact.
I want them[my clients] to be able to walk their WALK.
I want them to be able to help their clients walk the walk. It’s like a ripple effect, the more people I help, the more people they help and the more people they help and it just goes up exponentially, and I think that is so friken amazing! That is why I teach people how to manifest.
What are the steps to manifesting?
I’ve been trying to bring this down to 5 steps and you know what I just can’t do it, so it’s going to be 7 steps. Basically what we’re going to do here is talk about what the 7 steps of manifesting are and then we’re going to go through an example. I’m not going to spend a lot of time today, I really just want to give you an overview so that you can get out of here and have some practical tips and exercises.
I would invite you to have a pen and paper handy so that if you have a question or you’re like “oh that sounds like a really good idea” you can go from there.
Step 1 Get Clear Picture
In order to manifest you have to have a clear picture of what you want, and when I say picture, I don’t me a visual. You can know what it looks like, but more importantly you have to have a clear picture of what it feels like to have this dream that your dreaming, into your life now.
If you close your eyes right now and you imagine yourself inside your business, and you’re imagining yourself having clients, what does it feel like to have clients? What does it feel like to attract clients easily and gracefully? And what do your clients feel like when they’re with you? When you go with the feeling aspect what will happen is that you’ll be able to take that even further in to your business.
I love that aspect because what it means is if you can feel it, you can believe it and then you can take it to that next step. When I was in the seventh grade I had this paper route and there was this contest. I had this belief that I could see what was to come.
I could feel myself at the Montreal Canadians, in Montreal, seeing the hockey games and it was a contest for the person who signed up the most people on their paper route. Well you know, I didn’t have many opportunities for that because most of the houses on my route were already done, but I knew that I was going to Montreal.
I had zero doubt that I would go on a road trip. So one day, you know the list of winners came, they told us who they were out and I wasn’t on it. In my mind I was like well that’s wrong, I’m going on this trip.
Well the next day, I was invited to go on the trip because one of the other kids couldn’t go. That was the feeling of knowing! I had absolute certainty that this was going to happen and it’s the same feeling that you have to have in your business.
You have to the feeling of knowing that your programs, your offers, your clients are getting what you desire and that you’re working with them. If you can feel it that’s great.
Step 2: Make Clear Decision That It’s GOING to happen
So often in business what happens is that we kind of decide that we want to have a few clients but we don’t really commit and it’s more like a wish than a knowing inside. Feeling really helps with that, so a great way to up your commitment is to ask yourself the 5 whys:
- Why is this goal important to you?
- What happens then?
- What happens then?
- Why is that important to you?
- Why is that important to you?
- Why is that important to you?
You keep asking that question and digging until you figure out how this attaches to your dream. Recently I was looking into my business dream and Siobhan really helped me out with that.
We were dreaming about my business and I want to be able to talk to thousands of entrepreneurs and I want to have a really big impact. One of the things that came up in that was, in order to manifest that dream, I need to be alive and that means that I need to be healthy and just like that my commitment to eating well and losing weight started happening right away. It was instant and I was ready to do whatever it took to make it happen. I don’t know if you know this but when you really commit to making something happen, it much easier to do.
You don’t get all of the hard crap around it. Most people commit when they hit rock bottom. We hear a lot of success stories for that reason. They get to the bottom and they’re like, “Yeah, I can make this happen” and they do! They just make it happen because they have decided that they no longer want to tolerate what their current circumstances are and they’re willing to do whatever it takes. That is the place that you want to find yourself in. If you can that you can manifest anything.
So it’s clarity, decision and then you have to ask the universe and you have to be able to receive from the universe.
Step 3: Ask the Universe & Receive
You know a lot of people say that manifesting is just about asking. I hear that a lot and it’s almost like a verb, “I manifested last night” well you asked the universe but did you really manifest? It’s like the question of the day in my mind, and at the end of the day what needs to happen is that you need to ask, let the universe know and then come back to you. You’re not asking because you’re letting the universe know what you want.
The universe already knows. You’re asking so that your brain gets into alignment with what you want. Because your brain and your body and your spirit have all these things that you want, all these beliefs, this mindset and its unconscious. When you bring it up to the conscious level, you’re kind of saying “hey, I can do this”.
You’ve got it and it kind of grooves on into the right direction. So you want to ask and you want to start receiving. So when I say receiving, you want to start noticing more the signs that you’re getting from the universe. The more you can experience the signs that are coming back to you, the easier it is for you to manifest even more.
So you can ask and receive but you still have to take actions!
Step 4: Take Action
So in business it’s a numbers game. The more people that you can reach, the more people you can invite into your program, is that always true? No, it’s not always true for everyone. Some people work on referral and they do fantastic that way. That is in alignment with who they are.
For me that doesn’t quite work. I do get referrals, don’t get me wrong, I love them, but for me it’s a numbers game. If I want to fill up my programs, if I want to make a million dollars or sever figures next year, I have to grow my list. There’s just a bit of math. I look at it this way, you have a desire, you’re sending it out into the universe, people are going to hear it. You can’t control what people choose for themselves.
You can have a good relationship between the product you’re offering and what’s needed out there, and what people actually want, and you can communicate that really effectively but at the end of the day, people choose for themselves. It’s really that simple.
So the more people that you come to, the more people will say yes and that’s why there are statistics and all of that. So go ahead and pick what’s right for you but take action! And that doesn’t mean action is always going to be easy, and if you haven’t tried it, I’m going to say it’s because you’re afraid. Whether you haven’t done video or if you haven’t blogged or if you haven’t done something, don’t ditch it before you actually do it because you don’t know if it’s the right thing for you.
Step 5: Let go of the Attachment/Letting go into Trust
I’m going to reword that a little bit because it’s actually hard to understand what it means when people say “let go of the attachment to the outcome”.
It’s not about letting go. What’ happening is we have this need to get things done and we start to focus on the goal then all we’re seeing is ‘I’m not getting clients, I’m not getting clients, I’m not getting the clarity calls, I’m not getting the clarity calls’ and pretty soon you’re sinking into the feelings of failure.
Where you’re attention goes, energy flows and so then you’re not getting more clients and your vibration hits the dump Then you’re not manifesting anything you want. And so it’s not just about letting go of your attachment, it’s about letting go of your need to control everything and trusting the Universe. So I’m renaming this step to “Letting go into trust”.
If you’re here right now, just imagine yourself, closing your eyes and imagine the universe around you and just falling into it. You know like those exercises where you fall into people’s arms and they like throw you from one person to the other?
You see I have trust issues, but if you can imagine that, and the universe is supporting you, this is where you want to be. So it’s almost like, and this is what my coach said earlier, it’s like you have to act from a place of knowing that you have to take action and knowing that the universe it going to do its part and you have to trust that.
If you don’t trust that it’s going to be excruciatingly hard to receive from the Universe, so that is really step number 5.
Step 6: Release the Resistance
Here what I’m really saying is, get your shit together, get your mindset in alignment.
That’s a really big discussion and we can get lost in there, I’ve been lost in there and done too much of it. But clearing your stuff so that you can actually take action and start receiving really does help and that’s that I do.
That’s what I specialize in, it’s what I do with my 90 day clients, I do it with all my clients whether it’s 4 weeks or 90 days. When we do that what happens is their actions start to lead to results and they’re able to take more action, so the procrastination that they’re feeling goes out the door. I think that is a pretty amazing thing at the end of the day.
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Step 7: Keep Your Vibration Up
So all of last year I manifested in my business and I worked, oh probably, I worked every day probably from 8 o’clock in the morning until 10 o’clock at night. I was working non-stop. I almost never moved from my couch and my computer, I was constantly on.
I stopped eating, I stopped exercising, so one, I gained a bunch of weight and two, my vibration went down and so when your vibration is low and you aren’t feeling that great it’s really hard to manifest things that feel really good. When you feel good, you’re in a place of abundance and receiving.
So the best thing that you can do if you’re feeling discouraged right now is, you know what, can you re-frame that into “You know what, I’m not getting the results I want right now, but I have a lot of hope.” And that is what I did earlier today, I’m not getting exactly what I want but I have a lot of hope and in doing that I started to trust the universe a little bit more and I booked 3 clarity calls almost instantly. That is the kind of resistance that you want to be able to let go.
A lot of the time people think business training is enough, but the truth is when your stuff is out of alignment and you’re not really walking into your power and you’re doing things out of fear, it’s going to be very hard to manifest. Is that true for everyone? Absolutely not, I think it’s true for most people. It really depends on how your mindset affects you, and it’s a very unique experience.
So it’s not like you’ll have a belief that someone else has and it will affect you in the same way, you’re unique and everything serves you in the highest and best way.
So how do you incorporate this into your business?
Take 10-15 minutes every day, I like to do mine at night, and manifest. When I say manifest, maybe I’m asking, maybe I’m just raising my vibration, maybe I’m feeling and I’m spending a lot of time feeling about what I want. I ask the universe and I really just allow myself to release the resistance. So take 10-15 minutes a day that is what I recommend.
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Until next time, I wish some wild and awesome manifesting! You are beautiful! Keep going!